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1. Finding Dates at Singles Clubs
2. Finding a Religious-minded Date
3. Finding a Date Online
4. Finding a Date Through Volunteer Activity
5. Finding a Date at Work
6. Dating at College
7. Meeting a Date Inadvertently
8. Etiquette to Observe During Dating
9. Some Don'ts for Dating
10. A Few Recommended Things to Do While Dating
11. Uncertain Issues Related to Dating
12. Communicating while Dating
13. How To Determine if Date is Losing Interest
14. When Dating is at Standstill Status
15. Dealing with Adversity while Dating
16. Meeting the Family While Dating
17. First Date
18. Identifying Lust While Dating
19. Issues related to Personal Time While Dating
20. Problems that can Affect Dating
21. The Purpose of Dating
22. Getting What you Want Out of Dating
23. Managing Expectations While Dating
24. Factors That Indicate a Bad Date
25. Factors That Indicate a Good Date
26. Role of Family in Dating
27. Role of Friends In Dating
28. Factors About Dating that you can Control
29. Pitfalls in Dating
30. Positive Developments While Dating
31. Spending Longer or Prolonged Time Together While Dating
32. How to Tell if Dating is Worth Continuing
33. Romantic Dating Affairs
34. Long Distance Dating
35. The hook-up or Short-Term Relationship
36. Long-term Dating
37. Reasons to Date Only One Person
38. Reasons Having Multiple Dates May Work for You
39. Status Considerations When Dating
40. Finding Dates at Social Clubs
41. Guarding the Safety of Your Personal Information While Dating
42. Safety Issues Related to Health While Dating
43. Red Flags that Indicate Safety Issues
44. When Your Dates are Progressing to Become Serious
45. Issues that can Stymie Dating
46. Places and Ways to Meet Dates
47. General Dating Observations
48. Effect of Work, Time and Distance on Dating
49. Identifying Love While Dating
50. Having Memorable Dating Experiences


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17. First Date

Dating is a way of seeking to satisfy a basic human need for companionship, friendship and a close association with others. Dating encompasses more however, because these needs can be fulfilled somewhat through ties with family members. Dating is therefore a quest by individuals to establish a relationship or association with someone of the same or opposite sex, to satisfy longings of a deeper nature.
   
To begin to fulfill those basic but much desired longings, a 'first date' must be arranged. At first thought, a 'first date' seems simple and self-explanatory – the first date between two individuals. While that's always the case, a first date could also be the first time ever someone is going on a date. It could also be the first of a type of date – such as a blind date. And a first date could also be the first time that someone is about to begin dating again following a breakup, illness or other event.
   
Whatever the situation, there are some common features and things to observe on that all important first date.
   
Among the things common to first dates is anticipation. Anticipation is what embodies or generates the feeling of excitement that is felt before the date actually takes place. The thought of being with someone and of engaging in a fun activity such as dinner, going to the movies or for a walk, should create a good feeling and therefore cause some level of excitement. Having some anticipation about a first date will also help you to evaluate the experience after it is over.
   
Anticipation about a first date will also likely lead to having some expectation of what the time together should be like. Whatever activities are engaged in, you will be looking to learn about your date. And based on your values, your likes and dislikes, the qualities you want in a partner, you will have some hope or expectations that this first
date will reveal some of those qualities and other positive attributes.

Expectation and having some anticipation about a first date are therefore important because it establishes a measure or means of identifying what is or may not be acceptable to you. Whether or not you take a 'wait and see' approach, you must have some ideas about what you desire, or have certain preferences.
   
The extent to which your date shows any of the traits that you prefer can set the tone for future dates, or be an indicator of what potential the date has to become a part of your life.

Though important, expectation and anticipation about your first date has to be managed so that it doesn't have a harmful or negative effect. This can happen if you are so filled and overwhelmed by what your are thinking – what you are expecting and anticipating – that you expect exactly that to happen. You would then fail to see and to appreciate the true personality of your date. If that happens, then the purpose of going on a date will have been futile and useless.
   
For the first date, it's best if you simply ensure that the person meets certain of your basic expectations on qualities such as having acceptable behavior, being courteous, mannerly, and exhibiting appropriate behavior and mannerisms in public.
   
While it will therefore be virtually impossible for you to not have a high level of anticipation about your first date, you have to make sure it is managed so that it doesn't become overwhelming and prevents you from enjoying the moment and discovering
aspects of your date's true personality. You therefore don't want to have so much anticipation and expectation that it obscures the purpose of your first date.

 
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