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1. Finding Dates at Singles Clubs
2. Finding a Religious-minded Date
3. Finding a Date Online
4. Finding a Date Through Volunteer Activity
5. Finding a Date at Work
6. Dating at College
7. Meeting a Date Inadvertently
8. Etiquette to Observe During Dating
9. Some Don'ts for Dating
10. A Few Recommended Things to Do While Dating
11. Uncertain Issues Related to Dating
12. Communicating while Dating
13. How To Determine if Date is Losing Interest
14. When Dating is at Standstill Status
15. Dealing with Adversity while Dating
16. Meeting the Family While Dating
17. First Date
18. Identifying Lust While Dating
19. Issues related to Personal Time While Dating
20. Problems that can Affect Dating
21. The Purpose of Dating
22. Getting What you Want Out of Dating
23. Managing Expectations While Dating
24. Factors That Indicate a Bad Date
25. Factors That Indicate a Good Date
26. Role of Family in Dating
27. Role of Friends In Dating
28. Factors About Dating that you can Control
29. Pitfalls in Dating
30. Positive Developments While Dating
31. Spending Longer or Prolonged Time Together While Dating
32. How to Tell if Dating is Worth Continuing
33. Romantic Dating Affairs
34. Long Distance Dating
35. The hook-up or Short-Term Relationship
36. Long-term Dating
37. Reasons to Date Only One Person
38. Reasons Having Multiple Dates May Work for You
39. Status Considerations When Dating
40. Finding Dates at Social Clubs
41. Guarding the Safety of Your Personal Information While Dating
42. Safety Issues Related to Health While Dating
43. Red Flags that Indicate Safety Issues
44. When Your Dates are Progressing to Become Serious
45. Issues that can Stymie Dating
46. Places and Ways to Meet Dates
47. General Dating Observations
48. Effect of Work, Time and Distance on Dating
49. Identifying Love While Dating
50. Having Memorable Dating Experiences

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15. Dealing with Adversity while Dating

So, you are describing the status of your date to a friend and you talk about the relationship being very 'serious' with your date. If your date is at a point where you can call it serious, you will feel like you are in a 'sweet spot.' But there's certain to be a time when a big disagreement arises and has to be dealt with.

The first step to take toward resolving the issue is to explore what caused the disagreement. The nature of the issue, whether it is big or small, has to be discussed. If an open and honest discussion does not occur, then lingering anger will remain and indirectly lead to other problems and disagreements.

Any problems that aren't resolved to the satisfaction of you and your date, will eventually affect the relationship in some way. The worst case scenario happens when unresolved issues get to a stage that they threaten the existence of whatever bond has been formed.

When problems pop up, you and your date have to be careful about the attitude you both have, and the behavior you display, in dealing with the issue. You both have to 'fight fairly,' which means giving each other room to voice your feelings, to say exactly
what you think about the issue.

In discussing or talking about the issue, you and your date have to try to avoid being bitter. That means you both should be very careful about the words you use and your tone. It's very easy during an argument to lose control to anger and speak hurtful words, or, do things out of spite and revenge. Such actions will only prolong the problem
and heighten the state of adversity for your dating experience.

The extent of how challenging the problem is will be evident by whether or not you are still involved in seeing your date. If you both are still going out and are able to do do some things together, then it means there isn't an underlying feeling that the
relationship is coming apart. Instead, you both realize that the issue has to be dealt with, but you also have a strong bond which is important and which you both will work extremely hard to keep.

The difficulty of the problem and the extent to which it is affect your dating relationship
can also be indicated by the status of any plans that were previously made. Again, if you both have formed a strong friendship that is highly valued, you will both not want that damaged. So while prior plans may be postponed, there is still the thought that they will be executed after the issue is resolved.

If the feeling or action is, however, that those plans are dead, so that either or both you and your date have no desire to carry them out anymore, then the adverse situation is definitely tearing your dating experience apart. Your dating had gotten serious but not to the point where it can withstand the test of still being intact when a problem arises.

In the latter situation, you both will need to assess how you feel about each other and if you have something from dating that you want to keep and want to grow. If that is the case, then you and your date have to put the focus on each other and what you have, and realize that problems are inevitable in life and simply need to be worked out.

By putting the focus on each other and what you have developed from dating, you and your date will test the true strength of the bond or friendship that you have. In doing so, you can identify where there is any weakness and work to strengthen it. You also may
for the first time truly realize what you both have and develop a deeper appreciation for each other. Consequently, what started off as a bad or adverse situation can eventually serve a big positive purpose.

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